Why it Might be Easier to Be Kind to Strangers

There's often an expectation that arises with people we interact with on a daily basis that isn't present with strangers. This expectation creates a burden, and the feelings of having an obligation diminish any desire to maintain kindness and consideration to those you were once close to, so the relationships often end when you feel overburdened and underappreciated.

The need to maintain consistency causes any care or concern to become fake because you don't actually want to (or have the capacity to) care as much anymore. Being forced to care will make any attempt to show concern come across as insincere. So, what should you do in such a case? Both parties need to evaluate their thinking and show more appreciation for each other. The best way to do this is through open and honest communication.